Inspired after seeing the video. Lil Wayne’s” How to Love” is a hot song literally without seeing the video, right? Saw the video today for the first time. Okay don’t rub it in I’m like late. Still I have to say Wayne did his thing with the message. Either way I’m finally glad I saw it. We here at Cpr On Love dedicate our site to the recitation of broken hearts and unbalanced thinking that come from a past many don’t want to or feel they need to talk about with others. The importance of Wayne video meant a lot because being that molestation can send a person’s world into a whirl wind and many don’t know or realize the pain that left behind it even when think you’ve healed .

It’s the shame many run from that includes many around the person that was a victim to this ugly disease. I’m starting to see that it doesn’t matter in men or women the hurt carries an ugly truth many us are too afraid to face. However, I’m here to say it’s okay to say someone hurt you because you didn’t do it to yourself. It doesn’t mean you’re weak but strong enough to say this is my cry for help and to heal and to help others by leading the way. We can’t keep caring this burden of pain without feeling some way feeling obligated to say it’s within you waiting to scream out “HELP ME PLEASE”. You need help and the unhealthiest way possible not to get it is dying in your own silence AND thinking you guilty from allowing this to happen to you. Your mind is playing tricks on you. You’re not the only one as this has affected many homes across the world. The sad part nor will you be the last there are many but only few will gain the full potential of life lessons and the blessings that can from it. Many have been blessed but many won’t make it from their choices being made while suffering. The fact is HIV infections are on the raise so some mistakes are being made while trusting your own understanding. Please don’t continue to do this not to yourself, children or future mates. Sometimes we think we’re taking shelter from the storm but we’re still not yet fully protected. If someone had paid attention enough just to say you’re not alone I’m here to help to prevent this let be CPR On Love will stand up for you. We just said it. You’ll be surprised how much more of this story we understand and shame as no face here. There are young sisters out here facing this same truth and many won’t be as fortunate. There is an HIV infection in our communities and it’s the uniformed choices we make in our own homes caused by the truth we seem to run from. The running becomes habits because that too was exposed when you were a kid break the norm Tyler Perry did and I did too.

If you or someone you love is being abused please love yourself enough to know help is right around the corner regardless of how scary it seems right now. All you have to do is say something. The fear of holding on is nothing compared to the freedom of letting go and letting God. Many don’t know yet that anything worth having isn’t easy including victory…

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